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writes: my b/f and i have been having less sex..maybe its due to him being tired..but he got a lap top within the past 8 months or so..so obviously its not a computer that i can look at b/c its a lap top..not one thats sitting there at home constantly available for me to look at..i know one time i was able to use his lap top randomly and saw his history when u type in things was blank do you think he is looking at porn and using that now?
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reader, mexico36  +, writes (19 April 2007):
I think he probably is looking at porn as unfortunately most men do - my partner does the same (clears his history or doesnt let me near his computer).However its natural for men to be inquisitive of other women so the occasional bit of fun on the internet shouldnt hurt.
But when it becomes a daily occurence and starts interfering with your sex life as you say it has with you it starts to become a problem and you start asking yourself why he prefers to masterbate over porn movies than have sex with you, you also feel very inadequate and that you are not good enough for him - it really can be soul destroying for a woman - I should know.
The only way to try and solve this problem is by talking to him but do it in a very laid back and rational way as most men take real offence when they are accused of something like this even if they are guilty!
Tell him you are unhappy about the amount of time he spends on his laptop and could we spend more time together? Try and find things for both of you to do so that it takes his mind of those porn queens.
If all fails, you need to remember one important thing - its you he's with and he loves you - the porn queens are trash to him, he just gets a kick out of it - its just physical, nothing more.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): I'm sorry 2 say this hun but yes!Don't worry though all u need 2 do is talk 2 him about it nd have more sex wiv u nd less looking at people having sex!
Hope this helps!x
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