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writes: A guy friend of mine just told me last night that if soulmates were real and that people could complete another person, I would be that person to him. He went on to say how much he values me, and that I'm a great person. We've always said "I love you" but not in that way, but he said it after all that, and I kind of thought he meant it in a different sense this time. I immediately got nervous, and had no clue what to say to all that except that I loved him and was glad I could be that to him. tThe problem is today when I saw him, it was awkward. He seemed like nervous around me and our conversations were kind of short. It just wasn't the same. Does this mean he wanted something to come of this? He still hasn't mentioned it at all or called me like usual. What should I do? (I have feelings for him by the way, but I'm not sure if I want to lose his friendship). Thanks
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reader, Sexybum  +, writes (22 March 2006):
 Hiya, I think he definatly wanted something to come out of it. He was trying to take your friendship to the next level.
He wants to be your boyfriend and he wants you to be his girlfriend, He wants a relationship, thats what he was trying to tell, and oh how romantic it is!
Sure you are nervouse, so is he, thats probably becasue you both seem to have really strong feelings for each other. Do you want a relationship with him?
Ask yourself, do you love him? Does he make you smile, laugh, get butterflies in your belly, blush, comfortable, do you trust him? If you say yes to all these and you want a relationship then now its your turn to make a move. When you do you will be a snervous as hell, then you will understand how nervous he was when he opened up his feelings to you. If you are so nervous, It makes it all that more special.
He is probably embaressed, it takes a lot of guts to admit your feelings for soemone when they are that strong! He probably thinks you have knocked him back and don't fancy him. If you do then pluck up the courage and kiss him!! If you don't then try and talk to him about it and tell him how you feel or don't feel, because if you don't you might not get your friendship back!
This is so romantic, Its so nice to see something good on DearCupid, Please keep us updated and GOOD LUCK! XXXXXXX
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