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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i feel heartbroken cause me and my guy friend dont talk or see eachother anymore only write. i told him i like him but he said he didnt like me that way only as a friend but its hard only for me to write him because we dont have any other contact anymore. i still miss him have feelingss for him its hard just writing as friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Love is a mystical feeling.It can never be forced.There are many girls who fall for their friends.But the friends may not feel that way.We can't really blame the guy.He has entire rights to feel the love or not.There are a few things you could do to make you feel better
Stop all contacts with him even written.Its hard to follow at first.But the mind is a very strong one.you are as strong as you make yourself to be.
My biology teacher helped me grow a butterfly.Get a caterpillar.Put it in a bottle.Feed it lots of leaves and so on.Takes lots of patience.The caterpillar builds a cocoon around it.It breaks out of the cocoon into a butterfly.I was given one strict instruction by the biology teacher.How much ever the butterfly struggles to come out of the cocoon do not HELP!!.If I tried to get it out the wings might get damaged.You wouldn't believe the struggle the poor butterfly put up to emerge.But emerge it did.
Life is like that.We make our own cocoons.It can be an unrequited love or alcoholism or adultery.When you try to come out of it its not easy.Its lots of struggle.But when you emerge you can soar and fly. Do you want to remain in the cocoon or do you want to soar and fly??The decision is yours.Please keep us posted.
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