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writes: when i try to talk to my girlfriend she just blanks me out and wont listen to a word i say i cant have a proper discusion with her without her going off in a strop i dont know if its just me or her. what do you think i should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): hello, im in the same situation your in right now, my girlfriend doesnt feel comfortable around me, it has reached the level that she feels nervous sittin by me, she tells me she likes me more than any other guy shes ever like but i dont kno how she really feels, like the other day i tried sittin down next to her and she just got up and sat down at another chair... we were with friends, i noticed it and they noticed it too,i ask her how our relationship can improve if were not gettin closer but farther apart but she says our relationship is goin great even tho i dont feel that way, she says she loves me but yet never acts it.... i think we(both u and me) should tell our girlfriends how we really feel..meet them face to face..not through the telephone or text message or messenger, but face to face and look them in the eye and tell them how u really feel...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): i understand man. my girlfriend of 1 and 1/2 years does the same thing. when i want to talk to about something she doesnt want to hear it and totally just hangs up the phone on me. But when something is bothering her i have to listen. also she tends to only talk to me on the phone for 5 minutes. I guess im only worth 5 minutes of her time. She is very insensitive when it comes to my feelings. No wonder guys die at a young age. its not you man its her. I dont want to break up with my Girlfriend because i love her so much! she always wants me to change but its really that she needs to change.
~Jimmy~
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006): my girl threw a throwing dart directly at my rite leg and it hurt.she doesent want me any more and wants all the other guys but me.thats all she does is accuse me of smoking and drinking.and stills calls zack.zack.zack. rachael lives on the phone and writting notes to her wife amber so there 4 she is cheating on me also.and i spelt his name wrong and she noes because she wants him instead of me. so please help me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006): Ask yourself how you are trying to talk to your girlfriend. Are you being accusing? Could she feel like you are attacking her, or putting her down? If what you are asking of her is something that upsets her, or is something she finds difficult then you are asking too much of her.
Or it might be that you are unsuitably matched when it comes to communication. People assume that their partner can communicate as well as they can and it is this that leads to arguments and relationship problems.
Try to change your tactic, it is probably the way you are speaking to her that is making her get angry with you.
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reader, anonamous +, writes (24 June 2006):
ok your in a tight relationship but some people do this it is a way of getting comfy mabye she wants to keep it quiet and when you two are settled tell people so see how it goes mate ok if this keeps happening e-mail me at [email address blocked]
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