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male
age
41-50,
*uperness09
writes:My girlfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Things are going great still, with just one slight problem that may not seem to be a problem. My girlfriend loves to make out ... all the time. She likes to make out way more than I do. She recently told me that she notices sometimes when we're making out, I'm doing it because, "I feel like I have to not because I want to." I love my girlfriend don't get me wrong, but sometimes I'm just not in the mood to make out and would rather just hold her or watch a movie or something. I've noticed in several ways I seem to be more the "girl" in the relationship, and this just seems to be another. Am I missing something? Should I just be happy that my girlfriend loves to make out? Am I off base not wanting to make out with her everytime I see her? Or is it bad that I'm not wanting to and it's a sign of something bigger like I'm not attracted to her enough? I need some help! Any similar experiences would be appreciated.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (13 May 2007):
 iya chick, you are EXACLTY like my boyfriend and im like ur girldrined, your not missing anything =] its just who u are and how you are, she clearly has more of a sex drive which makes her more, 'wanting it' explain to her how you feel and maybe you should take her out to the cinema n show her that you want to hold her watching a film,hope i helped, mail me if u wan x x x
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