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writes: i fell like my girl friend gets horney by sweet girls and some how she used to sleep whith another girl but she always says no and it make me nuts to find out the truth before married thats very important to me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): My patner of nearly 2 years is bisexual and before she met me used to class her self as a gay woman. she is 25 and has had 10 same sex relationships. and lived with one of her girlfriends for a year and a half. when she first told me this i was a little surprised but didnt find it a threat. She is in love with me and we are getting married at the end of feb 2009. I have found it to be a very helpful as a form a forplay in wathing lesbian porn with her and talking about which women she finds hot. But she has told me that although she finds the female form attractive she nolonger has the desire to be with or sleep with another women. because im the one she wants and loves.
So if you truly love your girlfriend it shouldnt bother you as she has chosen you. and like i said try and make it a possitive instead of a negative. it will show her how much you trust her and also that you can be a part of her fantasy with her instead of holding her back which could turn her against you.
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reader, dreamer24 +, writes (17 July 2008):
I myself am bisexual. I just came out recently n told my boyfriend of 4 yrs. U have to understand us woman don't want to say anything that will jeopardize what we have maybe it was a one time deal. Maybe she's into girls just like she would be men. But yet u don't worry about her going to other men. I wouldn't worry much about it if u trust n love her enough. My bf thinks its cool now I look at them the same as I would look at a guy but he doesn't worry about it. Lookin and hanging out is not cheating don't destroy what u have for something she's done in the past
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): Is she bisexual or was this a one time thing? Even if she's bisexual it dosen't mean she'll cheat on you! it's all in your head
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