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writes: I was attached with this girl of mine. We have been seeing each other every day, doing the same thing like fetching her from work, having dinner together, spending weekend over at her place. This continued for 2 months until over one of the weekend, she told me honestly that our honeymoon period was over. She finds our relationship too rountine. Spending unneccessary time together and need to have her own free space. Concurrently she is quite stressed up with her work and also preparing her parttime degree examination. Is this the reason why she feel it that way? My honeymoon period is not yet over. I have try not seeing her everyday and I miss her a lot. Meanwhile she's not so loving to me as before. I really don't know what to do. Has she become sick of our relationship or should I do something to improve? I do really love her. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): buddy there is someone else in the picture, there is something thats clear as water when a girl doesnt want to share time with you and you giver her space and she changes the way she acts and talks to you, trust me the next step to that is she will call you and tell you our relationship is not longer working all the magic is gone im sorry she might or might not have someone else but thats what will happend the more you love her the more you bug her thats women thinking, giver her time and make her think that you can get other girls and stand up for yourself if she sees you weak she will leave earlier. dont ask her if she doesnt want to be in a relationship or if she just want to see less time, think as if you were a couple and just give her the time she will come back once she sees you ok with the situation trust me thats how they like if they think you will be waiting they will take their time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008): buddy there is someone else in the picture, there is something thats clear as water when a girl doesnt want to share time with you and you giver her space and she changes the way she acts and talks to you, trust me the next step to that is she will call you and tell you our relationship is not longer working all the magic is gone im sorry she might or might not have someone else but thats what will happend the more you love her the more you bug her thats women thinking, giver her time and make her think that you can get other girls and stand up for yourself if she sees you weak she will leave earlier.
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reader, Swanky B +, writes (18 November 2005):
Her needing space does not necessarily mean that she doesn' love you. Maybe she is just finding it hard to adjust to having you i her busy life. Try to find a hobby to accupy the time that you do not spend with her.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (5 September 2005):
 I think you need to give her some space. You know what they say; absence makes the heart grow fonder. If she really does care for you, she'll realise what she's missing and come back. We all have busy lives and sometimes it's just not possible to give someone so much of our time. She sounds like she could be very stressed at the moment so give her some space and let her decide what she really wants. The honeymoon period varies depending on the relationship but you can get some of that original spark back if you both want to. Let her come round and decide what she wants. Good luck and be patient. :)
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reader, charliesgirl +, writes (5 September 2005):
I would hazard a guess that your girlfriend's feeling somewhat smothered and trapped by the relationship. She is an independent woman with several obligations to fulfil. If she has been spending every spare moment of every day with you, she may have been neglecting her other duties such as coursework etc and this may be the reason that she has become stressed and distant. If you are picking her up from work too, that gives her no breathing space whatsoever.
Give her some space, and slow the relationship down. Talk to her and agree on a number of times a week to see her. Don't take her frustration personally, be understanding and supportive whenever you can. If you try to put pressure on her to see you constantly, you will eventually push her away.
Hopefully everything will work out for you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2005): She says that she needs to have her own free space so why don't you ask her if she means either that she wants to see you a bit less than she usually does or that she wants to not be in a relationship at the moment. If she wants to see you less then why don't you see her a few times a week? That way you don't get to miss her and it won't be like spending unneccessary time together seeing as it's not like she's seeing you all the time. But, if she means by having her own free space that she means that she doesn't want a relationship at the moment then stop seeing her and move on. You'll get over her eventually and you can have a relationship with someone who wants one.
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