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writes: My girlfriend is getting really overwhelmed and exhausted with having to work so much and I don't know what I can do to help. I let her know how much I care about her and love her but it still doesn't change the fact that she has to spend the time and the energy. Is there anything I can do to help? She relaxes when we hang out but then as soon as it gets closer to her having to leave, b/c she works the next morning, things get tense. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Hi hun,
Your a kind caring b/friend, Life! These days one struggle after another, A heavy work load will wear you out to the point of screaming sometimes, she probably just wants to chill out with you and not have to worry what the time is. Thats where the stress comes in I no how she feels and I dont actually go out to work, the home is quite enough for me with 7 messy people.
You just be there and on the rare opportunity you can grab a night where she hasnt got to rush off. A massage to destress is wonderfull a lovely pampering night set up by you without her knowing, Try and do this as i say on a night she hasnt got to rush away even if its once in a blue moon, and hunny just be there your doing a good job by caring TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Why don't you see if she can take a holiday? Even just a long weekend away with you might chill her out a bit. If she doesn't enjoy her job, why doesn't she start looking for a different one? All you can do is be there for her, suggest a holiday, and make the time she has away from work as relaxing and as enjoyable as possible. Hope this helps xxx
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