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writes: i am 23 and my girfriend is 15! can this work out? we have been going out for 2months now and she says she loves me,i love her but the problem is that when i first met her i told her i was 19,what should i do? i dont want to hurt her. please help thank u. x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SXYBB91 +, writes (21 July 2006):
i think you should tell her the truth you should of never of lied about ur age its just shocking on the lass your lieing to and i dunno if it will work or not it might do and might not but you should really tell her ur really age if she ends it its ur own fault in a way but you never know she might stay with you.
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reader, Ask Mel +, writes (21 July 2006):
Dear Reader,
First of all relationships do not work when they are built on lies. However she is only 15 so her idea of love is probably differnt from yours. My advice is to tell her the truth, as she will probably find out at some stage and it would be better hearing it from you than from someone else.
Take her out for the evening and tell her then, perhaps she won't mind your age but remember her parents might, so if you are really sure that you 'love' this girl prepare yourself for a bumpy ride. If not maybe you should let her down gently so that you can both move on, before the relationship gets anymore serious than it already is.
I hope this helps and wish you all the luck in whatever direction you choose to take.
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