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writes:My girlfriend has started recieving emails, texts and even phone calls from someone saying I've been cheating on her. When I haven't. I'd rather die than do anything to hurt her. But she doesn't know what to believe as she's been through this before with her ex's and because of that she's at odds with me and basically said if I don't find out who it was then it will always be on her mind.The texts were sent from a website and the phone calls were from an anonymous number, and the email address I suspect is also a fake as it's not registered on facebook or anywhere else. I've got a few suspicions of people I know who could be low enough to do such a thing but the question raises how did they get her number and email address? Cause they certainly haven't got it off me. I love my girlfriend more than anything! She's the best thing that's ever happened in my life. But I don't know how to find out who's doing this to us. Is there anything I could do to potentially find out? Because I'm totally out of options.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): First, you need to sit down with her, and talk with her, and be open with her, if you haven't already done that.
You also need to expect the same from her.
There is no easy way through this.
There isn't, so perish the thought that there is.
Something similar happened to me a few years ago, I was working longer hours (in lieu of getting fired), and it was people that we knew that suggested I was cheating and it was very damaging to our relationship because of the fear that it caused in my significant other (I always had opportunity but never even flirted). I didn't know about the suggestions, and couldn't do anything about it because she didn't talk to me, was afraid to talk to me about it.
More likely than not your gf is having a lot of fear and insecurity right now, and you should be afraid to some point because you are being targeted, both of you are, and people who do this do it for many reasons.
You have one advantage, since this is "anonymous", the police can help you, and should help you.
"The texts were sent from a website and the phone calls were from an anonymous number, and the email address I suspect is also a fake as it's not registered on facebook or anywhere else."
This is illegal, constitutes electronic harassment, and you should get help.
Remember, not only you, but your gf are "targets" of this action, and it may not be to hurt you but could be done in an effort to hurt her.
Have her read this, get the police involved.
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