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writes: What can I do about my gf? She gets sooo angry sometimes for reasons that aren't necessary! I love her to death, but I don't understand the point of her angerness. For example: Last night we were going to work out. I made her get up to go cuz we really needed to go. I said I wasn't going to play raquetball because I really needed to work out finally. Well when we got there I decided I wanted to and she got all mad at me. One of my guys from work were there so I was just gonna play with him. Well I ended up playin all night and she didn't even want to talk to me. I do admit that I did make fun of her for getting mad cuz I thought that was the stupidest thing. She tells me I need to help her with her attitude problems, but what am I supposed to do? Can anyone possibly help me?We've been together a little over a year and most of the time it's great until she gets her little mood swings going. I don't think I can take it much longer. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2006): i bet shes allergic to the pill tell her to take a 6 month break off it and use condoms instead you will see a different woman i promise.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Well I could tell you to just break-up, but let me tell you why so you can at least walk away a better person.
A relationship has give and take, with a huge dose of consideration on both sides. The example you gave didn't illustrate a 'mood swing' but how you thought of yourself with no consideration of your girlfriend.
You can only change yourself and if you really 'love her to death' then you should become a better person for her. Consider her feelings before your own. Encourage her to be a better person by example not by force. Put her happiness before your happiness.
If this is too hard or not worth the effort then just break-up for it will not work out.
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