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writes: Well here is the whole story..Me and my best friend got together exactually two years ago today. We had the best relationship in the world and loved each other to death. We even took the step to get a pet together, who we treat like a child. Anyway, about 6 months ago i fell into a deep depression due to my grandfather's passing. We were both working odd hours so we rarely got to see each other. We took a break from each other, but ended up getting back together. Then about a month ago we got into a huge fight and things just got out of hand. We ended up splitting up, but have since been trying to work things out. We stay together every night and still act like we are together. I keep asking him when we are going to be "actually" together and he says he's not sure. That he has a lot to think about, but he loves me more then anything. We're graduating from college in May, so i know that is a factor, but i don't understand why he can't just decide what he wants from me. I'm so confused and starting to get angry, making me not to even want to be with him. I know he needs time to make his decisions, but how hard is it to decide if you love someone? Please help me figure out what he is really thinking and how he really feels. Thanks
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (19 March 2006):
 The only person who can tell you what he really feels and really thinks is him.
Yet if you want to second guess and judge everything that comes out of his mouth, read up on body language and lying. Use him as your test subject and test him to find out how he lies. You will get your answers and probably lose the guy in the process. Yet the next guy will not be able to fool you.
So in other words there is no easy fix, you just have to talk and talk and talk and get him talking. There is where your answers lie.
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