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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for just over a year now. For the last month or so, things have been a bit hard, we've been fighting and arguing a lot and we haven't had much time together. She acts in a lot of plays and studies a lot during the day, I work 40+ hours a week and have band practice most nights, so we might only get to see each other once or twice a week if we're lucky. That's why communication is so important, I text her all day whenever I have a free moment, and I call her on my breaks at work and whenever I get home. Normally she does the same.But I haven't spoken to her in nearly two weeks now. She doesn't reply to my texts, she hasn't answered any of my calls. I've tried contacting her through Facebook and by email and MSN etc. but she doesn't reply. Although I see her talking to other people on Facebook.I tried visiting her three-times. The first two times there was no answer at her door, the third time I went there, her sister answered and said she wasn't home, even though her car was in the driveway.I don't understand what's happened. Have I been dumped? I know things were tough but she's just cut me off completely. I don't know what to do. The least she could do is tell me what the problem is. Any help?
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (26 October 2011):
 I think this is her way of breaking it off with you. I'm sure she would've taken at least 5 minutes to communicate with you if she wanted to be with you. She shouldn't have done it this way because it's cowardly and it has kept you guessing. I would move on if I were you.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (26 October 2011):
 Well it is ovbious she is ignoring you and i don't know if its the same with you but the number one thing that p***es me off the most is when others ignore me.
Have you done anything recently which may of really irratted her? had a blazing row before this all happened? or anything like that you can think of?
If not then i would have one final attempt on facebook or her phone just saying "is this the end between us, if you don't reply then i take it as a yes" or something like that.
Also take into consideration she may be hiding from you for something, there could be another reason she isn't contacting you. If you cannot get through to her maybe you should try talking to one of her friends or family members to see if they can give you any info.
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