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writes:My girlfriend for almost 4 years cheated on me.I am still hurt by the fact that it happened. I even started to blame myself. When we first got together i did cheat also and said it was the biggest mistake in my life. I realized that i did not want to lose her and had been faithful ever since. I told myself maybe that is why she did it. She told me it was not and she also told me it was not my fault. She said that she was sorry and that she never meant to hurt me. My girlfriend is home for spring break now i found out everything when she came home. After we talked everything out its been two days since i seen her and now she wont even talk to me. She texted me saying she wanted to be alone right now. All I want to get passed this so we can be happy again. i did not want to ruin our spring break together we have not seen each-other in three months and now she is home and I am afraid she wont even look at me. i know i cant trust her completely like nothing ever happened but i do want us to work things out. Can someone give me some advice
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reader, Cantremember  +, writes (13 March 2013):
Being emotionally distant to you after cheating is pretty harsh. After all you need comforting to move on. She has no reason to be mad at you so my best guess is that it is a selfish move. Meaning she is with someone else. I could be wrong but either way it's not ok to blow off someone like that.
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