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*ndy00
writes: Ok, so it looks like my ex-Girlfriend and me are going through a pretty ok break up, which surprises and (only in SOME, and not many ways) delights me. I know it's early but, I really don't feel like I want to be with anyone else, and it hurts me to even think of her being with someone else (Not that she is, but that will only be a matter of time, I'm sure). What is the best way to overcome this?I ask this, not because I want to dash off and meet somebody else (I think I made that clear), but because I know for sure that it's not something I'm going to be able to do easilly. Is it just going to be down to time? I really hope there's a more effective way to ease the pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2007): Hi darling,
Yes everything flower girl says is spot on, Time love give yourself lots of time and do something you wouldnt have done while you were together take up a sport or go off to the gym fill your life keep busy and everyday things will become easier...
TAKE CARE HUNNY LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, flower girl +, writes (13 July 2007):
Everything you are feeling is totally natural if it's still early days, try not to dwell on the past and look to the future now.
Time is a good healer and i would say you won't feel like this for long.
Take care.xx.
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