New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

My girlfriend always acts goofy, how can I motivate her to be more reasonable?

Tagged as: Dating, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (8 October 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like my girlfriend but she can get pretty goofy sometimes! Like one night we were making out and I though she was going to give me a hickie but instead she blew rasberries on my neck. And then another time we were having sex and she karate chopped my back! It hurt but apparently she thought it was hilarious cause she smirked and said "The ninja always strikes when least expected..."

I'm just wondering what would motivate my girlfriend not to be so silly all the time and what can I do about it?

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008):

maybe shes just not right for you? she seems to have a fun loving,goofy personality.some men might enjoy the fun and randomness that she brings into the relationship.but others,like yourself,may not like it so much.its a part of who she is,and i dont think you should try to change someone in that way just to suit your needs.learn to love it,or move on i would say:)

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, penguin64 United Kingdom +, writes (8 October 2008):

penguin64 agony auntJust tell her straight. cos eventually it will get too annoying and you will go off her anyway so you might as well save it and say to her about it. Every now and then it's ok to be goofy but ye ....not all the time.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008):

When you're having sex in the missionary position, ask her "What's pink and goes anti-clockwise?" Chances are she'll say "What?". It's at that point that you twist her nipples in said direction.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "My girlfriend always acts goofy, how can I motivate her to be more reasonable?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312515000005078!