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writes:My girlfriend and I have been having problems for about a month or longer. We have been fighting and carrying on but recently she told me she wanted a break. This absoloutely crushed me to pieces. The only way that I was able to cope with this pain was to drink until I passed out. Four days into the week break that she wanted, she texted me and told me that she loved me. Of course i loved hearing this and I immediately texted her back and made sure that she wasn't joking. Later that day I went to her house. It went well and we were back together. It was four days since then and I went to her house to eat dinner and go prom dress shopping today. I twent really smoothly but then i could tell that something wasn't right. I asked her tonight if she wanted to be with me and she told me that she didn't know and that maybe we should put thigns on hold. She later told me that she didn't feel the same way about me anymore and that she had fallen out of love. I just don't understand how someone can fall out of love with someone. My question is, what am i supposed to do? The girl is my life and I have never felt this way about ANYONE! Please help!
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reader, chase92807 +, writes (18 March 2008):
hey man im going through the same thing.. i could only wish my g/f still really loved me like she used to.. but the break and the same thing happend to me, but i wanna start hanging out with her, bc u never know wat happens and make her realize wat she lost, and maybe she'll come around maybe not... ive been crying nonstop.. i know its hard bro.. goodluck. i should have never let the break happen bc i didnt think this would happen but i dunno
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): You are both young and are still growing up and when this happens people change, their views on life and people in this life chage also.
At least she was honest with you by telling you the truth and that she has fallen out of love with you. Its never easy when you break up with some one. All you can do is respect her wishes and get on wiht your own life. It might seem like the end of the world right now but its only the beginning really. Put it down to experience and look forward to the future......
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reader, love-him  +, writes (7 March 2008):
 HEY!!
She has gone about this in the wrong way, but if she has actualy told you she has fallen out of love, you need to accept this babe! i know it will be realy realy hard for you but this sort of thing does often happen in a relationship.. You need to just say to her, is this it, is there no more hope..
HOPE U R OKAY :)!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x
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reader, blueydblond +, writes (7 March 2008):
 First, you deserve BIG HUGS.You know it's funny that I am going through something very similar with my boyfriend.Tonight I called him and he was hiding something from me. I called him on my break at work. So after he confessed to what he was hiding from me, it hurt me and I got upset that he would keep something from me after numerous conversations of this subject. Earlier tonight, later from then, I called him once I got off, and we started arguing. I asked him what he thought three times, and three times he said he thinks we need a break. It hurt me, so immediately I got off the phone with him...I said I love you and then hung up. For the past hour and a half now, he will not stop blowing up my phone.My point is honey, is not everything you HOPE to be will be...It's sad that it worked out this way, but if she really feels that she has fallen out of love, try to talk to her reasonably and figure out the problem, if it is something you both just aren't able to work out so you can stay together, then you might as well deal sweetie, and move on.It will hurt, break you down, and you will cry. But life sucks really bad hun.I hope the best. And I hope she comes to her senses.XOXO
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