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writes:my girlfriend has a best friend and they are cousins, she has a boyfriend but she cant go out with her boyfriend unless someone else goes, so she invited my girlfriend.i know it seems ok but the thing is that her best friends boyfriend was going to take another friend so pretty much it was gonna be a double date!!.i did not let her go and she said "it's okay i wont go," her cousin hates me for not letting her and she was telling me i should give her some spacewhat should i do?? is she gonna get tired?? am i a too jealous?
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (16 September 2007):
 Aw,sorry then:)It means you have a good relationship if you talked it over and she decided not to do something you toled her it bothers you.I'm not sure is it too jealous to mind the fact your gf is going on a double date but if that's the only time you "didn't let" her go somewhere it doesn't meter yet.Try not to do it too much in the future and I think you two will work out fine.
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reader, Chris060690 +, writes (16 September 2007):
Chris060690 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i did not tell her not to go but i told her i did not liked the fact and i switched around and told her if i could go with one of my friends doule dating and she said noo!! so in other word i did not let her go by acting kinda pissed off but i told her i am noone to say if youre going or not u decide!
she didnt go by the way
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): I can't blame you. My sister like you is a very jealous person and would flip if her b/f went on a double 'date' I say you got a right to tell her how you feel but not ordering her what too do. Just make sure you don't start controlling her and telling her what too do
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reader, L.O.S.E.R. +, writes (15 September 2007):
Sorry but I get so irritated when I see statement like "I didn't LET her go".I start thinking in a way "who da fuck are you to keep someone from doin ANYTHING he/she wants".If you don't trust her let her go-in all other ways leave her alone and let her live her own life.It's that easy:if she loves you she won't cheat on you.If she doesn't you shouldn't be together or you could have an open relationship.Theres still hope for you tho,I can tell it cause you posted this question;)The reply is:YES,you ARE too jealous.CHANGE YOURSELF on time.Holla
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