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anonymous
writes:Im always doing what i can to make my girlfriend happy. I take time out of my day to do things for her when she asks me to, and im always loving, caring, and very romantic with her. I love this girl soo much i try not to give up on our relationship. If feels like all i do for her, she wont do the same for me :(Reason being is that my girlfriend of 1 1/2 yrs is not showing any effort in our relationship. Ive told her many times what i want in our relationship and she doesnt do it. She says she will but she "forgets". (is that real love??? Cuz she says she loves me to death) In person, i honestly feel like most of the time like if i'm her friend rather than her b.f. She hardly shows me affection in person. I feel like our relationship is physically strain cuz everytime i try to do something with her she backs out! We always talk about what we are going to do and she says the "next time" she'll let me do more than just pop kiss/french kiss and when it comes down to it, it doesnt happen. Shes too scared and doesnt really show affection. I always have to do everything and i feel like there is no spark between us anymore but i keep on trying. It feels like our relationship, itself, is bipolar! One moment happy the next its all upset. Idk what to do. Do i keep trying or do i tell her about this for like the 100th time again? Stay with it or call it quits?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): Actions speak louder than words. she says she loves you but do her actions match it?
also, as Einstein said, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result.
so the answer is : you should call it quits. unless you like things the way they are and want them to stay that way because that is what will happen if you continue this relationship.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (9 July 2011):
i would break up personally it sounds like you are making a lot of effort to keep the relationship going and she is not interested in doing the same for you this relationship sounds very one sided a relationship like this cannot go any further
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2011): Tell her and if she continues to be carless call it quits or start talking to another girl and see if she cares if she dosnt then break up with her you should just try and test her to see how she really feels. Best of luck.
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