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writes: My girlfreind and I had anyul sex for the first time now she cannot have a bowl movement unless its small and painful, whats up? please help yours SK
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): Maybe she's trying to get over to you that she didn't really like it all and doesn't want you to do it again,
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (30 June 2006):
 The sphincter muscles at the exit of the anus are very sensitive and very tight to prevent faecal incontinence. Anal sex can cause abrasions and general soreness around the exit that can make bowel movements painful afterwards. Lots of KY Jelly during anal sex is supposed to be helpful, but if this is causing her distress then perhaps you need to abandon the sexual experimentation for a while.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (30 June 2006):
 She should be ok soon. If it persists go see a doctor. It does get easier but you have to make sure you are very gentle.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (30 June 2006):
 I'm no doctor but i'm female to.
Anal, is sore, the size of your bum hole is a lot smaller than an enlarged penis, so it would naturally stretch, she may have been willing but her bum wasn't. it is not normal to have "foreign" objects put up there.
maybe to get her relieved from bowl problems, let her take a laxitive, it will release that dicomfort and by the time she is ready to release her bowl properly then the pain should have subsided!
I hope it was worth it though! :-)
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