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My gf' cannot have proper bowel movemnts after we had anal sex. What's wrong?

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Question - (30 June 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2006)
A male , *k writes:

My girlfreind and I had anyul sex for the first time now she cannot have a bowl movement unless its small and painful, whats up? please help yours SK

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006):

Maybe she's trying to get over to you that she didn't really like it all and doesn't want you to do it again,

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2006):

DrPsych agony auntThe sphincter muscles at the exit of the anus are very sensitive and very tight to prevent faecal incontinence. Anal sex can cause abrasions and general soreness around the exit that can make bowel movements painful afterwards. Lots of KY Jelly during anal sex is supposed to be helpful, but if this is causing her distress then perhaps you need to abandon the sexual experimentation for a while.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (30 June 2006):

Yos agony auntShe should be ok soon. If it persists go see a doctor. It does get easier but you have to make sure you are very gentle.

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A female reader, Tinkz South Africa +, writes (30 June 2006):

Tinkz agony auntI'm no doctor but i'm female to.

Anal, is sore, the size of your bum hole is a lot smaller than an enlarged penis, so it would naturally stretch, she may have been willing but her bum wasn't. it is not normal to have "foreign" objects put up there.

maybe to get her relieved from bowl problems, let her take a laxitive, it will release that dicomfort and by the time she is ready to release her bowl properly then the pain should have subsided!

I hope it was worth it though! :-)

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