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writes:I don't what is wrong with me lately. Or am i just being depressed or just over thinking? I've been friends with these group of girls for over 5 years. We used to always hang out and spend time together. But this year, they completely changed. They wouldn't communicate when we hang out, they are just silent, acts like they are bored. I started to notice our friendship drifting apart, and im the only one whose trying to save it from breaking. I always man plans and i tell them that we should hang out at this cool place, they see the messages or they never reply. I would do this over and over and I tried to convince myself that they are busy, when i tell them face to face, they would tell me they will let me know, and then never give me an answer, like never. I always try to fix our friendship but they arent helping me. I know i cant force the friendship. But right know im confused if its my fault (that they think im too annoying to hang out with) or im just being too nice with them and they don't deserve it. Please help me, im lost in the thought that im just an annoying person and im bothering them. I don't know if we out grown our friendship but im shocked over how our friendship went like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2017): So I have been dealing with that for years and in my experience with This you might want to find new friends and its sad but people change
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (18 August 2017):
 Things change as you approach adulthood. You get jobs. You meet new people. Probably you move into sexual relationships. You can't expect your childhood friends from when you were 13 plus to still be into the same things as you. You all shared similar experiences in your school. That is over.
You should now be looking for new friends with similar interests, humour, hobbies, outlooks etc. You need to be growing into the next phase of life and you need people around you who will feed that.
So let go the past. If your old friends aren't coming along on your journey now that's OK. It was good at the time. Now for something new.
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