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*ellybean18
writes:well this is a bit of a long story but i really need some advice. My friend had a "thing" with this guy and they kissed once but then she told him she didnt like him and wanted nothing more to do with him. Then this guy and i began to talk alot and there was something there. So we kissed when we where at a club one night. But it was just one week after my friend said she didnt like him. I knew i had done wrong and i told me friend what had happened. she got really mad but after a few days she forgave me. I told her that i would cool things off with the guy and we would just be friends. So two weeks later i went out with the boy and a few other people but when i told my friend she completely flipped and fell out with me, even though i told her we where just friends...and thats all we where because i didnt want to upset her. My friend forgave me eventually, now she and the rest of my friends hate the guy but they used to get on so well and he wants to be firends with them. I stopped talking to him for about two weeks because of all the controversy it was causing between my friends and I but i really missed him and realised that i like him as more than a friend. So we met up a few days ago for lunch and have been talking alot since but i havent told my friends. Im afraid they will fall out with me forever and i dont want that because i love them and we will be living together at university in september. i dont know what to do. do any of you have an opinion on my situation? Should i end it completely with the boy? or should i tell my friends i really like him? what do you think i should do?Thanks
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reader, QnsNotorious  +, writes (15 June 2009):
 you have two options here ...
1) If you really really like this boy, talk to your friends and tell them how you feeling. If they were really your friends they would understand. But think about this first:Is this guy worth it? Could i do better? Do i really like him enough to confront my friends?
2) If this is just a crush that comes and goes, leave the guy dont risk your friendship for someone who aint worth it. you'll meet other guys but friends are worth more than a simple boyfriend.
THINK ABOUT YOUR SITUATION DONT MAKE THE WRONG CHOICE.!
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