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writes: All my friends hate my ex! But he wants to get back with me... We've have our problems but I love him and he loves me back... How can I make my friends see he's not that bad?
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reader, Helter Skelter +, writes (30 March 2005):
 Hi, I know how you feel. I was in a similar situation. I split with my b/f after he cheated on me and I have a close group of friends and they knew and were very supportive and always there for me. But I loved him and when I wanted to get back with him (after time), they all told me not and to forget him. But it was really hard and I told my friends that I knew they were looking out for me. But I need to be with him and they said they would be there for me whatever I decided. Now I've been with him for 3 years and am really happy. I took him back but don't make it easy for him, if he's hurt you, because then he thinks he can do anything. Good luck x x
A reader, Erin, writes (9 March 2005): First of all I must say that if all of your friends dislike your ex then its most likely because you confide to them and tell them all the dirt that has exsisted in your relationship. Of course your friends want the best for you and if this guy has been made out to be a complete jerk then in order for them to accept him at this point you need to start letting them in on the good things he is doing. If he wants you back and has hurt you make him earn it. As he earns your heart back he will earn in time your friends' trust enough for them to be okay with your situation. The key is, if you dont want them to think bad of him stop telling them all the bad stuff. If you have a girlfriend to confide to, cool, but the whole world doesnt need to know. Everyone judges.
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