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writes:My friend who I've been friends with for 4 years, acts as if she's better then me. At school she ignores me as if she's embarressed to be my friend, but on the weekends acts as if we're best friends. She calls me every weekend to hang out and its getting annoying. I know she's not a true friend but she tells me that we are best friends! I don't know what to do! Oh and also, she's a huge flirt and has flirted with my boyfriend sooo many times. I've talked to her about the flirting and I know she doesn't do it delibrately, its who she is. Help? Second question: Two of my do called best friends alwaysd want to hang out with my boyfriend and don't invite me! They've excluded me sooo many times and have even ditched me and left me standing all alone just so they could hang out! They never invite me which is weird because I'm really close with all of them. I don't know what to do because I don't want to seem like I'm making a big deal about it if I confront them. They've hung out 5 times the past month without me, and maybe more, I'm not sure because these are the only times I've found out about. They didn't tell me either, I found out on my own.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 First question:
This girl is NOT your friend, at all. Ignore her at school and tell her to stop calling you because you two are no longer friends.
You also can't make her stop flirting with your boyfriend. She doesn't care because you two aren't really friends. Instead, ignore her and have some faith in your boyfriend not to flirt back.
Second question:
Have they been friends with your boyfriend before you started dating him? If so then they don't need your permission or to invite you to hang out with him. Now if this isn't the case, then why don't you ask your boyfriend why he doesn't invite you to hang out as well?
OVERALL: Both these questions have a common denominator (besides apparent crap friends), your boyfriend. So either your friends just want to steal your boyfriend (and your boyfriend is letting them) or your boyfriend just enjoys the female attention. Maybe you need to look into getting rid of your boyfriend as well as your crappy "friends".
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