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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i broke up with my ex boyfriend over a year ago and he started seeing someone else, we kept in contact but not that often, he broke up with his girlfriend around xmas time n i was a good friend to him, we've recently been spending alot more time together and are currently talking about getting back together the problem is as much as i've realised i am still in love with him, he wasn't the best boyfriend in the world, although he was far from the worst, i know that by getting back with him my friends wont be happy as it was them i confided in when we broke up and they saw how upset i was. I asked one of my friends the other day what they would think but just told her it was a random question and she wasnt happy at all. My friends are the most important people in the world to me but i really want to work things out with my ex. My family may also be a bit wary but i know they would accept it and come around!Please help me i'm so confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): List the things that are so good about him. It is not up to your family and friends just who you go out with but they may have a point. They saw how upset you were when you split up with him so they have your best interests at heart. Why did you split? What was so bad about him then? He wont of changed! Leopards never change their spots. Are you interested because you are on your own, desparate? maybe lonely, wrong reasons for going back with someone. Did you love him? Do you think you could make a go of it now? Loads of questions to ask yourself. It isn't always a good idea to go back, i know, i did it with one of my blokes and it was a disaster. Sorry, but the last decision is up to you but run a list by yourself first. Don't go down a bad path again.
Take care and keep in touch
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