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writes:heyokay so heres the situation2 of my best friends used to be datingand the girl thought she liked him agen but she recently realised she didnt and has moved on - but the guy told me he still likes her and he cant look at other girls because she likes her soo much. he doesnt know how she feels about him and i don't think i should tell him...how can i help him move on and get over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Hi Hunny
What a difficult situation to be in, All you can do is be there for your friend and help him come to terms that his ex has moved on, Does she no how he feels? As this could become difficult for the three of you if she does, So confiduality is the name of the game here even though you male mate may want you to tell her to see her reaction, AND YOU ALREADT NO THIS! She may say to you one day she still likes him and if that happens sweetheart then great but if she has really moved on then you can only be kind and caring and talk with him the best way you no, Its going to be hard for him for awhile sweetpea but with a great friend like you then he will feel better for the support and hopefully in time love move on YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, korculan queen  +, writes (24 February 2008):
First of all do you have feelings for this guy. If you do it is putting you in a difficult situation. I would be honest with him and tell him that she has moved on and he will want to know what he has done wrong but simply say that it was not meant to be and that it is not a case of what he did wrong but that she felt they were not compatible. Obviously she did not adequately explain the situation to him leaving him confused as she went back with him only to then leave him. Can wreck a person's confidence. Good luck.
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