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writes:I really like this guy more than I've liked any one before and my friends went and did the worst thing ever and told him I like him and he said he don't like me but I always catch him looking at me and I've liked him for the longest time and I just want to ask him out but I'm scared to even say hi.. :( and I worried if he says no because then I will look and feel like an idiot... help! Reply to this Question
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (18 February 2009):
 u gotta be friends wit him first..then when he gets to know u he will probably like u back..just be like hey u wanna hang out and say hi...its supposed to be a good thing ur friends going on and telling him,i know u feel a little relieved inside lol..just relax be urself and say hi,he already knows u like him so dont try to hide it
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reader, Lizzabeth  +, writes (18 February 2009):
Right it was a very bitchy thing your friends did but I've been there! They may feel they are helping but we all deal with this kind of thing differently, here's my adivce..1. I'd say take things slowly by letting this boy come to terms with the fact you like him in his own way and for you to come to terms knowing he knows - play it cool, act like you don't know/don't care. You don't want to rush over immediately and ask him out, it may scare the boy.2. By the way you explain it sounds like he is giving out some sort of signal by looking at you; he could think you're attractive, he could be working you out or you may just think he's looking at you. I'd say watch his body language around you and keep an eye open for any more signals but dont get carried away with these..3. Try and actually let him get to know you. Are you in any classes together or any groups, sports etc where you could get the chance to talk to him. Build up the courage to say 'hi' and who knows he could lead a conversation or it may be down to you to ask him questions but at least then you're both getting to know each other.4. It will be a slow process! If you do get the chance to talk, get to know each other and time is going by maybe you will have to accept you 2 can only be friends and move on..Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): You've got to be his mate first, become his friend and if he brings up the thing about you fancying him, just say 'don't flatter yourself!' and laugh! then flirt with other guys while you're with him, he'll soon want to ask you out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): okay sorry but he said that he doesn't like you! The truth hurts but let go
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Ok, first, chill pill. It's adolescence and it is not a big deal. You have to act like you don't even know he knows. Ignore him. That always gets a guy wanting the girl trust me and if he doesn't like you back move on. There are plenty of guys out there that are probably in LOVE with you. There are normally the ones you least expect.secondly, tell your freinds that was a very immature thing to do, and ask them how they would feel if you did that to the guys they liked.If he glances at you that may mean simply that he finds you attractive, or he is trying to look at your friend. Don't get mixed signals.Just be calm and let things take their course.
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