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writes: I wrote a week or so ago about my friend's live-in boyfriend. We got drunk and kissed and I felt very regretful, but still attracted.Now the plot has thickened. My friend tells me that he told her about the whole thing, but said that I forced him to make out with me! It was terrible because I had to feign a blackout.Even worse, last night she called me and asked to come help her with him. He's drunk again. So my husband and I went to the bar to get him where he repeatedly made references to wife swapping.Then while we were at their house trying to drop them off, he made a big scene trying to get my friend and I to kiss. He kissed me right in front of my husband who is not excatly open-minded...Then he cornered me in the bathroom and starts kissing me passionately, trying to grab me all over and I did the same thing. We were almost caught by my husband and friend and I know they know something happened.The problem? I am SO attracted to this man. I know it is wrong and feel terrible, but he is so compelling, intelligent (except when drunk) and sexy to me that I find myself thinking about him all the time. Please help me. I want to get over this so bad. Now I'm scared what he's going to say to my friend and I'm even more scared what will happen the next time he's drinking. I know I should avoid this guy like the plague, but he is just so hot...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2006): Nah, if you're willing to be groped and grope him, kiss passionately, etc, then you're willing to divorce your husband and cheat on your friend. I say dump your husband, and forfeit your friendship, and go for the bastard.
I'm sure if I were your husband, I would be quite hurt. Just go for your libido, divorce, and save your husband the heartache. Really.
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