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anonymous
writes:My friends ignore me and i feel really left out i don't get invited anywhere and i get left out of conversations i get blocked out when they are all talking and i try and hide my real self incase they judge me and think i am an idiot! What can i do to be included? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lady Destiny* +, writes (5 March 2007):
Dear Left out...
I think you should be yourself around them no matter what and if they still block you out then they aren't the friends that you think they are. Most people hide their real selves because they are scared that they are not liked but it is better to be yourself than pretend to be something your not. Your friends probably don't realise its going on so try to make yourself more available but don't sound too keen. Try speaking to them but do not make it too awkward or put them on the spot. Try asking them what they are up to at the weekend or even ask them if they are coming out. As for being an idiot you only say this because you feel that you are, if you let loose and enjoy life your friends will become more aware of you and will not block you out as much. I hope this helps. If they do not respond to this then maybe they are not the friends you hoped for and i would suggest in finding new ones.
Good Luck!
Lady Destiny*
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