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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My best friend is always boasting about how great her boyfriend is in bed. She is always telling how he is, how strong, how long he can last, the things he does with every body part etc. Now I can’t stop lusting after her boyfriend! I want to sleep with him to try out this marvelous dish my girlfriend is always boasting about. She knows I don’t have a boyfriend and I feel she’s just trying to make me jealous and I think it’s kinda back firing on her. I am now in a very flirtations relationship with her boyfriend – but now she’s jealous and mad at me. What’s the deal? She started going on and on and on about her boy and now she doesn’t want me to talk to him???
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (2 March 2007):
Your friend was wrong to talk so inappropriately about her boyfriend with you, and if, as you suspect, she did it to boast and make you feel bad, what kind of a friend is she? Why are you friends with this person?
Walk away from your friend, but do not lower yourself by seeking revenge on your friend by stealing her boyfriend.
You should never have sex with someone who is already in a relationship. If someone is in a relationship, having an affair with someone else is lying and cheating and the single person who knowingly obliges is complicit to that lying and cheating, and in any case is likely to get hurt.
Hearing a tale that someone is "good in bed" is not a good reason to go after them. Being "good in bed" is a matter of taste so what she likes might not be what you like. Also, how he acts in bed might be about something clicking BETWEEN THEM, which might not click between you and him. Instead, find a guy that you like as a person to go after.
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