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My friend was there for me, should I wait to say what I'm feeling?

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Question - (13 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ail.. writes:

Hii everyone,

So like i just broke up with my boyfriend because i found out that he was cheating on me and blah blah blah. i was pretty hurt about it when i found out,my friend was there to help me out. It was a guy that i've known for a couple of years. I'm not sure if it's just cause my friend was there when i needed someone or if it is because its what i really feel but im starting to get some feelings for him and i think he feels the same. He hugs me all the time and sits next to me whenever he can and whenever he does hug me its like really long and then he has a huge smile after lol. the downside to this is that my friend has a girlfriend and i dont know if i should tell him i like him or not?? also i kinda feel like its a little to soon since i kind of just got outta that old relationship and got hurt so bad...

Do you guys think i should tell him i like him or should i not even say anything and wait a little longer to get over the realtionship i just got out of? :/

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2011):

I agree with the post below. This guy has a girlfriend, and as such you can't really do anything because if you do, either you'll get a bad reputation or you'll get hurt later on.

I think at this time, you'd do far more good to be alone and just focus on your life.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011):

He has a girlfriend. The polite thing to do would be to back off. If things are not well between them, sooner or later he will be single. But you do not want to go down the road of getting a man to break up his current relationship for you. No matter how special you think you are, there is no reason he won't turn around and leave you for someone else at a later date. Good luck

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