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writes:hi this is quite long sorrywell i am 12 and in year 7 at school and there is this boy in my tutor we talk and laugh together and i really fancy him and want to go out with him, but i am to fat and ugly that he will never go out with me also my friend and i ad a sleepover the other day and she said that she thinks he likes me and thta i should ask him out but if he says no then i am going to look a right flamin idiotplz help Reply to this Question
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reader, disfab911  +, writes (24 October 2012):
Go ahead and ask him out. A true fact is that girls who think they are fat and ugly are actually gorgeous but don't know it. Look out for yourself, chest out, skirt short and off you go. If he rejects you then you know he is a faggot and possibly gay. Find someone else. If he says yes, thank me later. Best luck, Diana.
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Don't let that girl make you jealous. Think of yourself as Miranda Kerr and roll with it!!!
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reader, vball122  +, writes (18 December 2010):
This happened to me..but a miracle happened :) It will for you!! The story goes like this...
I liked this guy since I first saw him. I asked him out plenty of times and he said no. I walked it off and forgot about him...but then when he was in my class the next year, I tried even harder. I wasn't shy and my confidence boosted. Until, this girl was trying to make me jealous. I ignored her and focused on my crush. I asked him out yesterday and guess what? YES! He said yes!
The point is I don't think I am the ugliest or the prettiest girl on the world, but I did know how to win a guy. Good luck!
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reader, cupcake amy +, writes (10 June 2010):
You are going through what I went through a primary school. All my friends had boyfriends but they are all pretty and slim, so i asked one of my friends to ask a lad out for me, so she went of to ask him and he said no.I knew I would have no chance with him because i think im fat and ugly aswell. But just have a go, because i was friends with the guy I asked out and i thought if he said no i would look like a right idiot, but i still went for it. Even though he said no we are still good friends, sometimes its better just to be friends that boyfriend and girlfriend, but I think you will have a good chance! GO FOR IT !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010): I am really worried myself because the guy i like is popular and i'm in the middle . we are friends but have only recently met . I think if a guy is worth your emotions , you should know whether or not he likes you before you embarrase yourself infront of your classmates, and make sure if you ask him out , that he won't spread rumors! Hope this helps
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reader, lightshadowash  +, writes (17 March 2010):
Hi there well i think no ones ugly cuz Everyone is pretty in there own ways and it doesn't matter anyway u should ask him out and if he says no then just say okay and slowly walk off [ he might have second thoughts]but if he says yes then say great and bam there u go.
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reader, shannonbaybee +, writes (21 August 2009):
I am 12 Fat and Ugly too :) but when i spoke to the guy i fancied he said ( in confidence ) it dont matter how fat or ugly etc someone is its just their personality thats counts, beofre this boy said that i had no feelings for him at all :) and now i (L) him so much, our love is like breathing, how could we EVER stop ? i hope this boy lieks you because you better remember EVERYONE is beautiful in their own way so if this guy says no then hes just stupid and probably only likes girls for their looks ! so remember , be yourself, believe in yourself , and always remember .. you are beautiful ! :D Best wishes for the future P.S reply if you wanna chat etc .xx
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reader, ...:love:...  +, writes (26 December 2008):
heyy,
My story is really similar!
what you should do is look for some signs to see if he likes you too...or ask your friends to ask his friends if he does. dont call yourself fat and ugly,its whats inside that counts. So, find out if he likes you, then see if you two would like to "hang out". take it slow
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): Hey don't worrie about begin to fat or ugly. Its not true. Cuz i though that this guy would never go out with me but he did. I went on diets and ran 8 miles at day but its not worth it. Cuz its not how you look or how fat you are its what you are like inside the outside doesn't mean anything. I got one of my friends to go up to him and ask him if he has a girlfriend and he said no then she goes well i know someone you should go out with. He said who and she said my nest friend she is really sweet and she point at me then that after noon he came to my locker and aid hey would you go out with me and i said yes. Then i ran 12 miles a day and would not eat cuz i though he would break up with me cuz i am to fat and ugly he told me that he liked me for who i am not for the looks and his friends make fun of him cuz he is going out with me cuz there girlfriends are skin and bones and he says that he like meat on girls and not kin and bones and he tells me all the time he loves to death and when i graduted in 2012 he is going to marry me. Cuz he is a junior this year so when i am 18 we are gettting marry. So don't worry about begin too fat or ugly cuz he doesn't like you the way you are then he is not the right guy for you even if you think so. So go for it and i hope he says yes but if he doesn't then he not worth it and move on and i know it will be hard but deep side you are a strong woman inside you and you can do it. So GOOD LUCK AND GO FOR IT!!!!
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reader, STEF!!!!!!! +, writes (17 September 2008):
just ask him out !
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reader, here.to.help.hotti +, writes (30 August 2008):
well se i have a crush on this really hot and popular boy too.im hot and popular to and i think he likes me back but u gotta ask him if he likes u gotta take a chance.who cares if ur fat and ugly i used to be but i asked him and he said yes so go 4 it
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): i an 14 and in the same place right now i just asked out a guy named nate. listen to what i did it might save you . it was at the end of 7th period of school and i wrote a note asking him out, but i give it to him at the very last momet before he left the classroom then i walked away to go to my next class. but if you do it make sure none of his big mounth friends are around before you give it to your love.oh and i am still wait for a replie i will problemly get it tommrow since i did not get to see him after 7th period. i hoped this helped you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): i am in the exact same boat!!!! my crush is really fit and im kinda on the plus side...im about 3/4 stone overweight :'( i cant imagine he'd want to go out eith me and we dont talk alot but friends say to me to talk to him and ask him out. my friend said on monday she'd ask him if he likes me and/or if hed eva go out with me...is this a good thing?? this isnt really and answer to your question, sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): I'm in year 9 and I have the exact same problem. I would ask him out when it's just you 2 and see what he says. You never know what might happen. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): ask him out when its just you n him...or ya could try msn or texting, most teens open up a lot more on msn or through texting, but just ask him out, youve got nothing to lose.
theres no such thing as too ugly or too fat...
1: guys prefer curves over thin girls
2: every single girl in the world isnt satisfied with her looks
3: guys usually dont waste a chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2008): to be honest, i wouldent bother asking this guy out. It sounds like he does fancy you too, but my rule is to never ask a guy out, let them do it. This is just my opinion though, and im sure he would say yes if you did ask him out. Why do you think your fat and ugly? how do you know?
beauty isnt just about what you look like, its about whats inside, and its sounds like you have a great personality! Keep remembering that, dont let anyone get you down.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 March 2008):
 What's worse? Looking like an idiot or continuing to feel hopeless? Little tip for you... and I swear, it's something that I only recently mastered and definitely couldn't do at 12.... when you ask a guy out believe he is going to say yes because if you let your low confidence get in the way then he will say no. Look around you, maybe not so much at kids your age but at adults. No doubt you will see many a girl who is really ugly or fat but has a boyfriend. Why? Because she believes she is the most gorgeous thing on earth so he believes it too! Confidence is the key.
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