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writes: i was in a seriouse relationship with a guy. one day his wallet ended up getting stolen because he left it on the porch, and me and my best friend were outside. she took his wallet and all the money in it. and he found out it was gone and blamed it on me. my riend even said it was me. so he left me because he said he could no longer trust me. and when he did leave me i was 4 and a half months pregnant, and he knows its his. i have tried to talk to him about working this out but he said he didnt want to be in a relationship and he couldnt trust me, then i found out that he asked my friend out behind my back and they have been dating for over a week, and i am now 6 months pregnant, so what is going on, he said he really wants us to work but he knows its not going to, i really need some advice because i am so stressed out right now.
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 December 2007):
Set up an attorney, and when the child is born get the court order for child support. I generally argue for the rights of children being with both parents, but in your case I wouldn't try to work on it. He's dating your friend. how right is that. The main wrong here is that if there was real trust in your relationship, you would have been able to tell him you didn't do it, and he would have believed you. That's real trust. He sounds like someone I wouldn't want to be raising a child with. I hope everything works out for you.
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