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writes:What can I do here?Alright I went on a few dates with a girl and things were going great, but now she ignores me completely, and although I like her I can accept that and move on.But the other day my friend (who was very drunk) was on my MSN and said a bunch of weird perverted stuff to her pretending to be me thinking it was a big joke. So now I think she really hates me, and her ex-boyfriend has called my house 3 times now looking for me but I've been away each time.If she doesn't like me thats one thing, but I don't want her to hate me and think I'm an obsessive pervert.What can I say to her about this? I can't call because she won't answer, and me messaging her saying "Hey, sorry about telling you off the other day, turns out it was a friend... So whats up?"Can someone help me out here? I'd be much appreciated, thanks.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (9 September 2007):
 just email her or text her saying what you have said here. just say that you get that she is mad but just wanted to apologise for what was said and that it wasnt you it was your friend, maybe even say you are mad at him for saying it then leave it by saying "take care x" so she wont think you are just apologising to try to get her to date you again x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007): Maybe keep it formal. Copy what you wrote here, even saying that you don't want her to hate you, into an email and send it. Don't expect anything more than that she won't talk about this to her friends. Also, know that your friend's reputation may be hurt... but he will learn a good lesson.
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