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writes:I met a guy from my high school days. both of us are separated. He has 1 kid and I have 4. He says he is not looking for no woman and I told him that I am not looking for no man either. We keep in contact daily. one day he allowed me to know that life isn't easy out there and I should be careful who man I pick up and I my get worst than my husband and no man wants a woman with four kinds as that is too much responsibility. Later on in the same conversation he states that he is going to be my kids stepfather. I didn't respond to him on that. sometimes he promises to pass by and never shows has some excuse. most of the time my ex husband is here also. we had a very intense convo and he said we not going to be and used fouled language. I didn't respond but expressed my concerns today. he normally text or call to see how I am doing etc we never hugged or kissed though we promised to. sometimes he shows interest then another time he gets on like if he has two personalities. I like him but right now he is sending very mixed up signals. what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll advise appreciated. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe do not communicate any longer. I have learnt that he visits my area regularly unfortunately my ex's car is usually parked outside. He told me one time that me and he will not do. I put up a pic of his vehicle and a status stating you are always on my mind. He put up the same pic and his status was touched by an angel. This man is constantly on my mind and no matter how I try I can seem to remove him from my thoughts. This is difficult. Especially when we don't even communicate with each other any longer. I don't understand why it is so difficult to forget him.
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (13 June 2013):
 I don't think you should pursue anything with this man. You don't know what he wants from you. You could ask him but I suspect he doesn't know what he wants either. From what you say, he doesn't sound great. You have four children so the only man you should be allowing to share your life with you and your kids is a truly great guy, someone genuine, hard-working and reliable who knows what he wants, treats you well and keeps the promises he makes. Can you honestly say that this guy is all those things? If not then it's time to say goodbye to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2013): I think he has definate feelings for you but does not want to rush things or ruin your friendship. He also might feel intimidated by your ex. Maybe you could ask him out with or without the kids as a friend for lunch or dinner? Just see how something like that goes
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