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writes:A bf of my friend apparently keeps messing her around.She rang me last night, I asked her how he was, and she said he was okay when she sees him (apparently only Fridays for an hour or a night - he says he's always busy other times). I said to her last night that she's got to talk to him otherwise it will be a repeat every time she sees him. When I said that, she said she's tried to talk to him and every time she does, he makes promises he can't keep. She then put the phone down on me! (for helping her) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Well goodness knows why as well, If he isnt keeping his promises and not seeing her, Maybe she thinks that buying him this laptop will buy his love hunny. Your a good friend the only thing you can do is be there for her and listen, I no its hard to not make any judgments on her spending this amount of money on someone who really doesnt seem to be interested or appreciative (if thats spelt right) in any part of her life and I can understand your frustration as a friend. The best way sometimes is to let it be listen and be there as she has to learn these lessons for herself sweetheart..YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (29 April 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the question She rang me last night, and she told me he's still not seeing her and he isn't keeping his promises, next thing (and goodness knows why) she bought him a £400 laptop, and she tells me he never buys her anything! Now she's in debt!
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reader, tommy2k7 +, writes (29 April 2008):
tommy2k7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe rang me last night, and she told me he's still not seeing her and he isn't keeping his promises, next thing (and goodness knows why) she bought him a £400 laptop, and she tells me he never buys her anything! Now she's in debt!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Don't worry - she's probably just a little upset at how things are going at the moment. Don't be annoyed at her, don't pester her about it, just make sure that she knows that you will be there to comfort her if things aren't going so great. Good luck to both of you. x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Hunny
Dont take it to much to heart, She is upset and all the problems she is having will make her a little emotional she probably didnt mean it love and you will make up, Its just a stressfull time for her, You did all you could its not aimed at you love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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