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writes:I'm going throuh some stuff, ok here it goes, my best friend let's call her hannah, well a while ago I told hannah that I was crushing on this guy, well she understood and we became good friends with him. A couple of days I heard that he liked hannah, I told her and she said she liked him too, I was shocked and I told her that why didn't she tell me before, and she said she didn't want to hurt me so she said that if he asked her out she'd say no, well guess what, yesterday after school she got with him right in my face, I was angery not coz I'm jealous or mad that they're together, but coz she lied to me and I feel betrayed. What should I do. please help. xX
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reader, Mrs. Mom  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 These things definitely happen. Just count it as one of life's experiences.
It's possible that "Hannah" didn't mean to betray you, but didn't have the strength of character to resist the temptation. I know that's happened to much older people than her!
Don't give her a hard time or try to make a point. Just stop hanging out with her and find some better friends. Even if she didn't mean to do it, she did it, and it's better not to reward such behavior by remaining friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): This happened to me once. I was the friend who betrayed. I was attracted to him but loved my friend. So I went behind her back and made a fool of myself. I just didn't have the guts to do in front of her and felt horrible. But guess what, the relationship didn't work out..and the guy dumped me. It lasted only a month and he was on to someone else. It didn't take me long to figure out that I would never put my friendship on the line again. Also, I didn't get many interested guys so I welcomed the attention.
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reader, lgonzal2 +, writes (13 March 2009):
 This is an important part of your life when you can pick out who your true friends are and who are the fakes. This girl is obviously a fake. I would not trust her and I would call her out on this situation to see what she says. I think she is jealous of you because she probably knew this guy would want you if you went after him first. So talk to her and let her know how you feel now or it could get worse.
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