A
female
age
30-35,
*oveislies
writes:Dear Cupid,I've been dating this boy, (A), since November fifth, and on the seventh of February I left him. Very soon I found out this was a mistake and got ready to tell him and "win" him back, however, my best friend has been flirting with him. You should also know that she was the reason the relationship I had, had before (A), she had been flirting with my previous boyfriend and he eventually left me for her. I immediately stopped talking to her. A few weeks ago I gave her another chance at being my friend, and then she does this to me when she knows I still have feelings for (A). I had a stern but friendly talk with her and made it clear that I wanted her away from him. She continued to flirt.What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2008): Cut her out of your life and keep your life personal meaning don't share your man with your friends
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 February 2008):
 Well! I am glad you had that stern chat with your friend and she back off. I guess you were more intimidating than her. LOL!
Or there could be some cat fights.
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reader, loveislies +, writes (29 February 2008):
loveislies is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI made it clear to the, now, ex-friend I dont want her flirting with him, she actually stopped after another stern chat.thank you all for your great answers!
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reader, loveislies +, writes (29 February 2008):
loveislies is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your great answers!you have all really helped me with this situation.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (28 February 2008):
 HEY!!
I think you friend is being realy nasty to you, and you need to jump in there and tell your ex how you feel. Once you have done this you need to be prepared for the outcome.. He will either say he likes you or not etc (You know what i mean)
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me at any time :) x x
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 February 2008):
You cannot control your friend or your soon to be enemy.There is nothing you can do about her unless you want to beat her to pulps!
What was your reason or reasons for your breakup with him?
If you were wrong , then you need to come down from your high moral judgment seat and apologize to him and hope that he will accept you back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): well said by waterloo sunset - nothing to add
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008): Your friend would soon be my ex friend if i was you. She is just playing a game with you i think. If you want your bloke back then go straight up to him and ask him out. Dont wait for her to get in there. But remember, you two finished for a reason and those reasons dont go away magically overnight. So think carefully if you really do want him back. Cut her out of your life entirely and you will be a lot happier.
take care
xx
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