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writes:My friend has been having dreams of her ex (non sexual dreams) for the last few months and is quie worried by them. She has been with her current partner for 3 years and married him 3 months ago. As far as I know and what she has said to me things are good between her and her husband. She has said that her ex was very good looking but was an idiot. She is thinking that maybe she doesn't fancy her husband as she once did and that is why these dreams are occuring. She has not seen or spoken to her ex for over 4 years!! I have suggested that this may be the case and also if she keeps thinking and worrying about the content of the dreams then it is a vicious cycle, and she could keep having them. Would like anyones advice on this please, thanks in advance.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 May 2007):
 Personally I don't think dreams mean anything.... unless anyone can shed light on the fact that I have a recurring dream where my dead grandmother tries to turn me into a frog and eat me... In my humble opinion she feels nostalgia for her ex, maybe a sense of regret on some level but what you really need to do as her friend is assure her that she's not having these dreams because she doesn't find her husband attractive, that she's just becoming settled and used to her husband and maybe doesn't have the same rush of feelings she once had. That doesn't have any bearing on her love or the strength of their marriage, it's just something that happens. If we were talking about my best friend I would advise her to stop dwelling on dreams that nearly always mean nothing and aren't worthy of our time and worry.
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