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anonymous
writes: I have been working with this married women for almost a year now. She is 10 yrs older then me. Ever since we met we have been cool with eachother. She has always been very phsyical with me, like playing around. The more we became friends the more phsyical and playful she became with me. Now it is to the point where guys at my job say something... like what's going on here etc. She play fights with me a lot. For example: She picks me up. She takes one of my legs and holds it between her thighs so I can't walk. She lets me do whatever I want to her when we play fighting. I mean whatever I want. I have picked her up and slapped her ass. She sat on my lap once. She is always trying to toss stuff in my shirt or down my pants. She holds my hand. Now we have been hugging more. She tells me she misses me sometimes or she will say I love u. But I don't know if she serious or just joking. She acts like this with me in front of her husband. She only acts like that with me, no-one else in the office. Does she like me? Or what is going on? I'm confused. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey I got an update to my question that you answered. The girl I work with and I are now even closer. We are not as pshyical anymore but she still puts stuff down my shirt. We hug a lot now. One day I was crying and she kissed my check. But it wasn't just a kiss. It was like she was kissing on my neck. And she look at me alot., like up and down. She said I make her nervous and I wasn't doing anything. She messed up her work. We were huggin the other day and she said real serious I love u. I said I love u 2. And I asked her out to dinner and she got all happy. And was like what you mean and something about a date and she say yes.
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reader, M_M4ever +, writes (6 September 2007):
Well many things it is a possiblity she does have a slight feeling for you. To be honest though i can do it too i become to playful. Im very confortable with "playing" around with other girls. Personally at times a girls company is more apprecitated then a mans (no offence men). She could get physical for the wanting of female attention, not sexual, but just friend/sisterly. I know i look for it i ook for sisterly mother love a lot i dont usually throw things down eoples shirts but we do play around a lot. My friends sit on my lap i sit on theres. If it really starts to get beyond beilf i would just calm ask her what are you doing. She will back away probably but just startto tell her your real feeling it may help solve the little playing mess you have.Best of Luck
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