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My friend is afraid of getting hurt....

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Question - (17 May 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 May 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *andygirl1978 writes:

Help for a friend ? I've been giving advice but I'm clueless on this one...she meet this guy..been together a year and living together 6 months.she has never trusted a guy so much he's always straight forward when asked but at the first 6 months they had a lil argument he left for night and she found the girls number in his phone he was with before her my friend checked his voice mail the chic was on there drunk well my friend asked her boyfriend about it he said he just called to say hi really I know because he was mad at her so my friend called the girl told her who she was which the chic knew said he called her and said they were broke up which they where but she told the girl they were back together and there was no need to call him she agreed well 6 more months passed and they had there 4 agreement in a year he leaves mad and when he returns next day my friend looked at his contacts and her number was in his phone and it's a new number and new phone she asked him why does he need to talk to her he ran into her and exchanged numbers and told her once again that they were broke up so now she is douting him and has feelings of not trusting him yes he was sexually with her so bad when my friend found an old phone of his before they got together of naked pics she sent him I just know if he had Any closer he quit dating that chic to date my friend please any advice is good advicxe

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A female reader, angelDlite United Kingdom +, writes (17 May 2011):

angelDlite agony auntonly he and his ex know what really has been happening. your friend will not believe him no matter what he says (whether it is the truth or a lie) seems like every time they argue he goes running back to the other girl? is this boyfriend the one who causes the arguments? your friend should watch out for him starting arguments that he can use as a reason for leave for the night. sorry, didn't quite understand the last line of your post - do you mean that he was going with the other girl and then dumped her to get with your friend? if so, this shows that he is not a trustworthy person and it also would explain why your friend mistrusts him and looks in his phone

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011):

It's between the two of them, stay out of it and support her but don't become the third wheel in their relationship.

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