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male
age
30-35,
*mit thakur
writes:i have friend, she is very close to me but we live in different cities and we only chat ,we rarely meet.. i have so much trust in her that whenever i am upset or mad or sad i text her, talk to her and she listens and i always expected her to do the same. but whenever she is upset of feels low, she doesnt talk to me or tell me the reason . i can not think of not talking to her, i want to talk to her everyday but she doesnt, she says i am her best friend but then why she doesnt text me when she gets sad like i do, i want her to talk to me first when she gets upset , i am her best friend , i expect this from her but when she doesnt do that it hurts
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reader, SimpleSoul  +, writes (4 November 2014):
 oh dear! I so much understand how you feel, and also how she feels. it has happened to me - friends do not always have the same needs as each other. You live in different cities, probably have different life styles, different amounts of available time, even different access to online. Not to mention different needs. Some people can be a best friend, others will never fit the bill, you cannot mould them, and it is wrong to try, accept what she has to offer and be grateful, she is not your best friend, your best friend will arrive when you are not expecting it, you cannot manufacture one, wish you could, it will happen!
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