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writes:I have been with my gf for 5 years. Last year one of my best friends split up with her bf and being the good friend I am, I took here under my wing and she has now spent most of her time with me and my gf. Before xmas I felt like there was 3 of us in the relationship. But now dread her coming round and spending time with us. Shortly after xmas me and my gf have split up but still live together and are very close friends. I have had a gut feeling that my friend thinks more of my gf than just friends. It's the way she acts and her x bf asked her the same thing plus a few other close friends. It's very obvious.I haven't said a word to ethier of them and its hurting so much. I still love my gf and she is going traveling in September so we can get over each other and now my friend is going with her. It's driving me nuts. This friend has never wanted to travel, she is just following my gf like a bad smell. I know my gf has no feelings for this friend but it still hurts advice on how to handle this would be great.Many thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Sweetheart let them go, your ex is straight and this friend of yours is no longer that really or she would be there for you right now as you were for her, Im sorry this has happened it must be so hard but once they have gone you can start to put your life back on track i wish you lots of luck and take care xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): Ah, lesbian drama, you gotta love it.....you sound just like by lesbian friend, I would get over the jealousy, most likely the friend is just that a friend, especially if she is truly heterosexual, we don't just turn like that because we like a girl as a friend....at least not the stable hetero women I know.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 If you're living in a tense household, I suggest finding another friend, and getting a new apartment. The only thing that you can do is move on to better things.
DV1
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