My friend and I started talking to the same girl, he asked her out, they started dating, broke up, now the girl and I, talk and hang out, should I tell my friend what we are doing, or should I stop being with her? |
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writes:Ook. me and my friend have known this girl for two years. We met her at a little party that we went to. so then we started talkin and her and my bestfriend started talkin as well. she would call me almost every nite and we would always talk. things were lookin good. but her and my best friend were talkin as well. my best friend would tell me he liked her but i didnt tell him dat i liked her as well. he eventually asked her out and she said no. he tried again and again she said no. but the third time she said yess. at the time i was a little upset but i didnt say anything. so we eventually stopped talkin over the fone as much as we used to. and then i stopped likin her becuz it was my bestfriend she was dating. maybe a month into their relationship they would always call me for advice. they were constantly having problems and turned to me for answers.i told them if there relationship were to last they would have to solve their own problems. so they stopped callin. And they eventually broke up. but they would still mess around. then the fone calls started coming in again. we started talkin again until one day she asked me if i liked her. at this time im thinkin like she must rele like me cuz girls rele dont do that. so i told her i did and she said the same. we began talkin on this topic for a while and i found out she had liked me 4 a while. now we hangout a lot but i dont let anything happen because she dated my best friend. now im facing a difficult situation. do i tell my friend how i feel for his ex or do i blow her off which would be very difficult as well? Someone please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): If you like him just tell him. Go for it ! Think positive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): There are lotssssssssss of women in the world. Why are you attempting to date one that your friend dated? Are you that lonely, and insecure? It sounds like if she had really wanted you she would have chosen YOU FIRST!!!!!!!!
But she didn't... she chose your boy. So let her play her games elsewhere. And respect yourself.
God Bless.
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reader, zaybaby120 +, writes (25 August 2008):
well first off it's never good to date your bestfriends gf/bf because with that comes trust issues. and you should never let anyone come in between u and your friends relationship. i think you need to brake it off with the girl. and right about now shes looking like a smut for talking to two bestfriends at the same time
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