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*arah g
writes:hi the other evening i went out with my girlfriend and we got drunk, when we came home we ended up playing around which led to a kiss.we then had the most amazing sex i never thought i was a lesbian but she gave me orgasms tht no man has ever done.i cant stop thinking about her, and i find myself getting wet just thinking of her.am i a lesbian ?
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reader, sarah g +, writes (25 September 2007):
sarah g is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for all your answers about my sexuality, but after another night of passion.i am definately bi if not gay.
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reader, [email address blocked]  +, writes (25 September 2007):
![[email address blocked] agony aunt](/avatars/c5bffc88-1b07-456c-b2aa-14d9aa066b62.png) Only you can decided if you are a lesbian or not.
Are you attracted to woman?
Are you attrected to men?
Both?
You could be lesbian, bi, or straight.
Either way, your perfectly normal.
Everyone will end up going through this one day.
:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Hi I dont think so, you have experienced something quite amazing lets face it when we have amazing sex with a bloke or in some cases a toy we cannot help thinking about that moment and want some more.
Just because you had a great time with a woman on one occasion does not mean that you are gay. Only you can answer that question but use the experience to try new things with a male partner or by yourself.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (24 September 2007):
 Women are normally better at pleasing women because they know what they like just because you enjoyed it doesnt make you a lesbian your experimenting trying new things sex with women can be fun its new and exciting, if you are a lesbian you wouldnt be attracted to men you would find men and sex with men a real turn off if you will like that towards men then you could be. But i just think you enjoyed amazing sex and thats a good thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): You will have to wait and see - if she was feeling awkward she wouldn't be coming round. Can I ask, is she a lesbian?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Lesbian? No, I don't think so.
Bisexual? Possibly. You've just discovered that you might be. A lot depends what you do in the future, whether you share yourself equally between women and men, or stick to sex with one or the other.
Normal? Yes, though not necessarily common.
If it feels good, do it! (as long as no-one else is hurt by it).
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): I am married (to a man) and I am turned on by lesbian porn although I have not had sex with a woman. I think it is because women have more beautiful bodies and it fascinates me. I think you should be open minded about your sexuality and not worry - this could have been a one off or it may signify more. You could be bi-sexual. If I were you, for now, I would just enjoy what you did!
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reader, sarah g +, writes (24 September 2007):
sarah g is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your answer. she is coming around tonight and all i want to do is make love to her. i think it will be akward
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Its hard to say, I would say if you werent initially interested then no. I think that your experience is what excites you more than your friend. Have you asked her about how she feels about it all, it certainly sounds like she made an impression on you. You are doing no harm if you decide to fool about again.
I have a friend that I shared an amazing kiss with years back, im completely straight and in a happy relationship now but I would have loved to go further and she still excites me when I think about her, it doesnt make us gay - it makes us interesting!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): No i don't think you are a lesbian it is natural for women to explore and have tenancy's for each other don't worry bout it and enjoy yourself
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