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writes: I am 52 years of age, been married three times and divorced three times with a child to each marriage who have all grown and have their own homes. Four years ago I met a female who out of the blue told me she wanted to make love to me. To cut a long story short I did and found the whole experience wonderful. I have never been with another female since and long to meet one to have a stable relationship with but don't know how to go about it or how to approach it. I don't know how to tell if another female likes female company in that respect and would never chance offending anyone. There is a night club I have been to three times but they are all very young. Can you help please.Many thankAlison
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reader, limpnjen +, writes (16 July 2005):
You may find it easier to meet fellow Lesbians online, there's a lot of groups/communites/sites where it is/would be easier for you to find like-minded women and to also get adivce on other Lesbian things that you may be wondering about. It'll take some time but eventually you will understand everything and find a woman that is right for you.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (9 July 2005):
No offence but due to your age, a nightclub isnt the best place to meet someone your own age.Try local groups or join a class at college. After 3 failed marriages however, i think it would be best to take some time for yourself and forget about relationships for a while.
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reader, pops +, writes (9 July 2005):
Are you for real? Three marriages, with three grown children, and now you think you are a lesbian? Please, get professional help. Its highly unlikely that you are a true Lesbian, and this isn't something that people just decide one day to become. The fact that you had one great experience rolling around with another woman in bed does not make you a lesbian. It may mean that you like oral sex a lot more than you knew, even with three husbands. Only you can answer that, but you will need professional help to sort things out. If you are adamant about meeting older gay women, talk to the owners of the bar you mentioned, and find out where the older gay women hang. The young gay women usually know, as do the owners of the places they frequent. After all, their customers get old, too. There are women out there who get their kicks by " turning" a heterosexual woman into a " gay " woman.( In their dreams!) I always wonder why, if it was so good, the other woman hasn't called you back for another date? Could it be that she knows that you aren't really gay, and doesn't want to waste her time on you anymore? Or have I got her pegged, as a person who only gets her thrills making love to hetero women? pops
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