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female
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anonymous
writes:okay, so i'm literally at my wits end here. there's this guy, i've pretty much had a thing for him for almost a year now. Its slowly gotten deeper and deeper, and now the only way i can describe it is i'm in love with him. here's the other facts. we dated...twice, the first time for like 10 days, and the second for 3 days shy of 2 months. not very long i know...but i never felt this way about anyone. the first time we broke up it's cuz his friends convinced him to. he regretted it almost instantly, but waited 2 months to get back together with me, because i dated other people in that time...casually. the second time, we broke up, we had a massive fight and he said he didn't have time for a girlfriend...which was kinda true...he worked 10 hour days 6 days a week in construction, so he was kinda wasted all the time...i lost my virginity to him the second time we dated, and he's the only person i've ever had sex with. we broke up over 4 months ago now, and every time i see him, my heart breaks a little more, because i know i'll never be with him again, because he's said so...so my question is...what can i do to move on with my life?
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reader, Compressor  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Hey, it's going to be OK. The same thing happened to me, but we both had no time for each other anymore. It took a year and a half to get 100% over it, but then I moved on.
If you are studying or working, try doing that harder. It really worked for me, as it helped me not to think about her, not to stay alone. If I didn't get so deep into job+studying, my had would blow up.
But my overall dating experience is crap, so I hope someone will come up with a better idea. Still, this is an option as I know it works.
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