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My fiance's job is requiring we move but I dont want to. He says I can freely pack my bags and leave. Is this a sign we aren't meant to be together?

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Question - (4 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2007)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am really confused with my situation. I have been with my fiancee for 4 yrs, and I love him dearly.

He has a job opportunity in which he may take, requiring him to move and he wants us to move just like that, so I feel that I have no opinion to say no. I disagree with the moving, and all hat he says is that then I can freely pack my bags and leave.

So, I feel totally hurt.

Do I stay? Shall I go? is this a sign that we are not meant to be together.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (4 September 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'd say it's a huge indicator that your relationship has problems. I wouldn't move with him if he can be so cavalier about you packing your bags and leaving. Let him move if he wants to but you stay put until you can figure out just how much you guys really mean to each other.

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