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*risca
writes:hi my name is priscilla. i just came to united state to met my fiancee we been dating for 4 years now but distant relashionship so now i,m here with him i,d just foundout that he is a porn addict we use to have a lot of sex but his not satisfied without masturbating i love him so much it upset me but i dont know what to do.i talk to him about it but he is so much in it.he still does it behind my back and i,m sick of it. tell me what can i do?
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reader, prisca +, writes (11 October 2013):
prisca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi i'm here again.i was married to my boyfriend who i moved from africa to join here in the united states.he turned out to be even more aggressive about sex. when he watches porn what ever act that takes place in the porn he will wanna practice it on me.we disagree on a lot of things finally am divorced and i'm dating again actually i am now in a relationship with my current boyfriend but i have issues trusting men due to my previous relationship with my x husband. i need help my boyfriend is great guy but i feel as if he gonna my hurt my feelings is it just in my head??
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reader, sommerslover +, writes (13 December 2008):
 Have you ever considered watching some porn with him ? Porn comes in several categories, and you just might find something to watch that could turn you on. Too many people complain about porn without even looking at it, because somebody told them it was bad. And, just because a person watches porn, doesn't make him/her an addict. There are websites that sell or rent adult dvds. Try checking out some of these sites, and the categories that they list. You and you guy could do a Saturday night porn night and watch it together. There is no harm in trying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Im sorry to tell you this, but you would be best of leaving him unless he is willing to get counseling with someone who is a specialist in sexual addiction. This is a very hard addiction to break and it Will make wreck of you if you stay with him. It is also a progressive addiction. He will have to search out harder and more bizarre formats to get the same rush of excitement. How would you feel if he watched bestiality or urination films? He probably already has.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Why are you even letting this affect the relationship?
Did he not satisfy you before you even knew about this porn thing?
He probably has a high sex drive and feels this is the best way of keeping it in check because you are bound to not want sex at the same frequency he does.
There is nothing wrong with watching porn and masturbating. It apparently didn't cause any issues until you discovered it, meaning he took steps to be discreet and keep it from interfering with the day-to-day running of his relationship.
I advise you to do the same.
Flynn 24
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reader, ChristineD. +, writes (6 December 2008):
 I'm sorry about your situation. I actually watched a show on this, and many men will get worse and worse throughout the years. Many also start finding other relationships outside of their main relationship and it gets very out of control. They interviewed couples in this exact situation and every girl on there knew about the man's situation, even before they got married, or started getting serious, and they are all torn apart about it now because it had got so much worse. I think your best bet is to get out of the situation. I'm not going to sugar coat it, that is a hard thing to do, so maybe set yourself a goal, do some research. Whatever drives you to get out of the situation. Good luck. =)
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