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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, so my fiancee is out of town for a week for business.I sent him a nice sms saying "have a nice day etc". For the whole day I have not recieved a relpy back.He wasn't online either so that i could msg him freely like he usually is on. I got home from my classes and got online to check my email and oooops there he was on all of a sudden.I have not msged him while being online and neither has he, I got off and now i feel that his priority is someplace else. We have accessible accounts that either of us can use, so I went into where he was on and saw a converstaion with his friend. But he couldnt even say hi back or reply to my earlier sms. I feel blown off, cause if he cared he would try to msg even to say hi but nothing. I know to some of you that may seem not worth anything. Tho, I feel his priorities are friends before me and this bothers me a lot. Im starting to wander if there is much more than I know. If I was to ignore him for a day then he would be like "whats the matter with ya?" but he can ignore me and yet it feels like he comes and goes and Im just there because I have the ring on, and I shouldn' feel that way. I have spoken before about this to him, yet, it goes in one ear out the other. From this point, I just dont know. I need some help guiding me to put up wth this nonesense or not.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (27 August 2007):
 your right for feeling second cord you should try and get him to listen to you. leave notes around for him to read, if talkings not working letters?if he does it all the time something might be up he might be going through something and just not telling you about it. it would seem silly for him to blow you off now your engaged for a reason try and try again you only fail when you dont try and if it doesnt work maybe you need to reevaluate your relationship with him starting marriage and having no or little communication is hopeless hope this helps x
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